The Man I'm Probably Going To Marry Manga Reviews

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Apr 23, 2021 (PST) | Translate to English

誠実なふたり

Sincere couple

ゲイ婚活で出会った二人。どちらも誠実なので安心して読めました。過剰な波風は立たない、日常のなかで仲を深めるふたりを見守る感覚でほっこりします。

The two met through gay marriage hunting. Both are honest, so I was able to read them with peace of mind. There are no excessive waves and winds, and I feel relaxed watching the two deepen their relationship in everyday life.

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Feb 12, 2021 (PST) | Translate to English

感動しました

impressed

婚活は条件とか相性とか考えてしまって本質的な部分を忘れがちになってしまうかもしれませんね。この2人のようにゆっくり歩み寄ってお互いを知っていく関係に憧れます。

It may be easy to forget the essential parts of marriage hunting because you think about conditions and compatibility. I admire a relationship where these two people walk slowly and get to know each other.

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Jan 23, 2021 (PST) | Translate to English

何だか(^-^;

What is it (^-^;

スーっと馴染むような感覚になります。婚活で知り合った二人が少しずつ自分を相手に伝えて混ざりあっていく感じかナチュラルに伝わってきます。(^-^)男女問わずこんな優しいカップルがいたら祝福してあげたいです。

It feels like it fits right in. The feeling that two people who met through marriage hunting tell their partner little by little and mix is conveyed naturally. (^-^) I would like to congratulate them if there is such a kind couple regardless of gender.

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Jul 08, 2020 (PST) | Translate to English

やっぱりいい！

After all, it's good!

以前、読んだことがあったけどそのときもじわっときて、久々に読んでみたらやっぱりじわっときました！！一冊に重たいテーマが詰まってますが、それを優しく包み込んだような話でした。

I had read it before, but then I was still nervous, and when I read it for the first time in a while, I was still really nervous!! There are heavy themes packed into one book, and it seemed like a story that gently wrapped them in.

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Apr 15, 2020 (PST) | Translate to English

とても良い！

very good!

同性愛だけに限らず、結婚について悩むのはノーマルでも誰でも同じ！妙齢→婚活→付き合う→結婚！になる大人の恋愛は一歩踏み出すには『この人なら…』って確信的な物が欲しくなるのがセオリー。読んでて途中で婚活パーティー開いた店の人がチャラくて2人をくっ付けようと強引だったけど、多分このチャライ彼の話読んでからの人はスンナリ受け入れる感じなのでしょうね…

Not limited to homosexuality, everyone is the same when it's normal to worry about marriage! Myoage → marriage hunting → dating → marriage! The theory is that in order to take a step forward in adult love, you want something sure, “If it were this person...” While I was reading it, the person at the store that held a marriage hunting party in the middle was aggressive and tried to stick the two of them together, but maybe the people after reading this story about Charai are accepting Sunnari...

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Aug 29, 2019 (PST) | Translate to English

ゆっくりと恋をしていく感じがいい

I like the feeling of slowly falling in love

一冊まるごと表題作。ゲイ婚活から始まるカップル。婚活といわれると、BLじゃなくても？という感じがしますが、BLならではの恋愛模様が描かれていて、ゆっくり2人の関係が進んでいくの様子に惹かれました。「二人は末永く支え合って幸せになれそう」な読後感にじんわり癒されます。優しい気持ちになれる作品でした。

The entire book is titled. A couple starting out with gay marriage hunting. When it comes to marriage hunting, isn't it BL? I feel like that, but it depicts a love pattern unique to BL, and I was attracted to how the relationship between the two slowly progressed. After reading it, I am slowly healed by the feeling that “the two will support each other for a long time and seem to be happy.” It was a work that made me feel kind.

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Oct 16, 2018 (PST) | Translate to English

じんわり沁みます

Slowly soaks in

男女関係なく結婚したい人、結婚には拘らない人がいますよね。幸せになる方法は人それぞれ。出会い方も人それぞれ。関係の進め方も人によって違う。でも同じテンポで暮らしていけたら一緒にいてしっくりするかも。この2人の今までは違いすぎるかも知れませんが、これからの道は同じ歩調で歩いて行けそうな予感でいっぱいでした。

There are people who want to get married regardless of gender, and people who don't care about marriage. Everyone has different ways to be happy. Everyone has different ways of meeting each other. The way relationships proceed differs from person to person. But if we could live at the same tempo, we might be comfortable being together. These two may have been too different until now, but the road ahead was full of feelings that they would be able to walk at the same pace.

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Aug 16, 2018 (PST) | Translate to English

是非ネタバレ無しで！

Be sure to stay spoiler-free!

とてもいいお話でした。ゲイの婚活という珍しいテーマに惹かれましたが、根本は同じ。愛が育まれる姿って美しいなあなんて思いました。ゆるやかに進んでいくので、ドキドキ感は多くはないですが、徐々にふたりが近づいていく様子が好きな私にとっては満点な内容でした！きゅんきゅんでエロエロなお話を求める方にはお勧めできませんが、大人のふたりの歩み寄りを見たい方は是非ネタバレ無しでお読みください♪

That was a very nice story. I was drawn to the unusual theme of gay marriage hunting, but the root is the same. I thought it was beautiful to see love being nurtured. It progresses slowly, so there isn't much excitement, but for me, who likes the way the two gradually get closer, it was a perfect score! I don't recommend it to those looking for an erotic story with Kyun Kyun, but if you want to see the two adults walk close by, please read it without spoilers ♪

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Aug 16, 2018 (PST) | Translate to English

不安な気持ちが伝わる

It conveys feelings of anxiety

他にも書かれている方もいますが、同性婚がテーマのお話でした。カミングアウトしていてパートナーを探すって珍しいなぁと思って。二人の過去には色々あって辿り着いたって感じで、切なくてでも温かいお話でした。

There are other people who have written it, but it was a story about same-sex marriage. I thought it would be unusual to come out and look for a partner. It was a sad but warm story that felt like they had arrived at due to various things in their past.

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Aug 04, 2018 (PST) | Translate to English

じれったいくらいに…

I almost lost my mind...

This review contains spoilers. ゆっくりと確かめ合っていく2人から目が離せません。不安も期待も、過去も未来も抱えながら、穏やかな流れの中で近づく2人の心がたまらなく愛おしいです。タイトルから、相手は「異性を選ぶ男」なのかと思ってしまったのですが、その勘違いさえも嬉しくなってしまうステキなお話でした♪

This review contains spoilers. I can't take my eyes off the two as they slowly check each other out. The hearts of these two people who come close in a calm flow while having anxiety, expectations, past, and future are irresistibly adorable. From the title, I thought my opponent was a “man who chooses the opposite sex,” but it was a wonderful story that made me happy even that misunderstanding ♪

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Aug 04, 2018 (PST) | Translate to English

ゲイ婚活のお話

A story about gay marriage hunting

やや切ないけど幸せな話しかない。黒髪受け最高。無骨攻め最高。緩やかに初めて出会った2人が結婚に向けて歩いて行くお話。読後が爽やか。

There are only slightly sad but happy stories. Black hair is the best. Boneless attacks are the best. This is a story about two people who slowly meet for the first time and walk towards marriage. I feel refreshed after reading it.

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Jul 26, 2018 (PST) | Translate to English

ゆっくりとした時間

Relaxing time

ゆっくり、じんわりとストーリーが進んでいきます。ゲイ婚活というテーマの話は初めてだったのですが、同性であれ異性であれ真摯に向かい合う姿勢は変わらないのだなぁと。Hシーンもありますが、それもストーリーの一部という感じでがつがつしていなくて、読み終わった後はじんわり心に残るものがありました。私は好きですね、この作品。

The story progresses slowly and slowly. It was my first time talking about the theme of gay marriage hunting, and I don't think the attitude of facing each other sincerely, whether they are of the same sex or the opposite sex, hasn't changed. There is also an H scene, but it felt like it was part of the story, and there was something that slowly stuck in my mind after I finished reading it. I love this work.

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Jul 19, 2018 (PST) | Translate to English

ゲイの婚活

gay marriage

一生を共にするパートナーを求めてゲイの恋活パーティーに参加した涼介。そこで出会ってマッチングした俊。決して男女の婚活と同じではないけど、家族を求める二人の気持ちは男女のそれと同じもので、ゲイ夫夫も出てくるし、比較的差別のない優しい環境です。それぞれトラウマや切実な願いがあって、婚活なので恋愛感情よりパートナーを求める関係だけど、じわじわ愛情も育っていて、私はすごく好きな二人でした。このままゆっくり愛を深めて欲しいなー。でも俊はまだ涼介への恋心には無自覚な部分がありそう。結婚して夫夫であり恋人でもある二人になれそうなので、そんな続きが読みたいです。

Ryosuke joined a gay love hunting party in search of a partner to share his whole life with. We met there and matched Shun. It's definitely not the same as marriage hunting for men and women, but the feelings of two people seeking a family are the same as those of men and women, gay husbands also appear, and it's a friendly environment with relatively no discrimination. They each had traumas and desperate wishes, and since they are marriage hunting, they are in a relationship where they seek a partner rather than romantic feelings, but their love gradually grew, and they were two people I really liked. I want them to slowly deepen their love as it is. But it seems like Shun is still unaware of his love for Ryosuke. It seems like they will get married and become two people who are husband and lover, so I want to continue reading that.

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Apr 30, 2025 (PST) | Translate to English

悪くはないけど・・・

not bad, but...

This review contains spoilers. タイトル通り悪くは無いんですが特別欲も無い、というよりやっぱり「物足りない」感。なんでかな、この作家さんのお話は割と物足りないなと思うことが多いです。（ＢＬに限る）決して嫌いとかじゃなく。もうちょっと「なんか頂戴・・・」っていうのが読了後に襲ってくる。それにしても後出しでゲイじゃないってことでやや喧嘩になった時。どっちの言い分も理解できるな。涼介は真剣に付き合ってた元カレが女に持ってかれたって言うトラウマがある、だから「ゲイ」がいい、と思うのもわかる。一方で俊の言い分はざっくり言えば「男とくっついたって他の男が現れてそっち行くことだってあるよね。性別関係ある？」ですけどそれもそう。結局は本人がその好きになった人を信じられるか、になっていくわけだけど前に進む勇気を持てた涼介は偉かったし、結果的に相手に恵まれたってことを理解しないとね。とは言え、ノンケが相手となるとやっぱ釈然としない点もあるけども。婚活で断わられた相手（女）といつまでも連絡とり合ってるってのはやめたほうがいいかと。ゲイじゃない発言より、私はそっちの方が嫌だったわ。

This review contains spoilers. As the title suggests, it's not bad, but rather that I don't have any special desires, it's still a “unsatisfactory” feeling. For some reason, I often think that this writer's stories are rather unsatisfactory. (Limited to BL) It's not like I don't like it at all. A little more, “Please give me something...” hits me after I read it. Even so, it was a latecomer when they got into a bit of a fight because they weren't gay. I can understand either statement. I also understand that Ryosuke thinks “gay” is good because he is traumatized by his ex-boyfriend that he was in a serious relationship with was taken by a woman. On the other hand, to put it roughly, Shun's statement was, “If you stick with a man, there are times when another man shows up and goes over there. Is gender related?” But that's the case too. In the end, it becomes whether the person himself can trust the person he fell in love with, but Ryosuke, who had the courage to move forward, was great, and you have to understand that he was blessed with his partner as a result. That said, there are also points that don't make sense when it comes to Nongke as an opponent. I wonder how long it's better to stop keeping in touch with someone (woman) who was turned down during marriage hunting. I didn't like that more than the statement I wasn't gay.

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Jan 29, 2024 (PST) | Translate to English

タイトルが変わってるなぁ

the title has changed

ゲイの婚活で出会った二人のストーリー。わりとシリアスというか、落ちついた雰囲気の作品かな。淡々と進みます。それと比較して脇役ＣＰの個性と主張が強く、一瞬スピンオフなの？と思いましたが多分違うっぽい？脇役ＣＰがなんだか一昔前のBLっぽくて、メインＣＰとの温度差…笑でも悪くないと思います。ハピエンでよかった。

A story about two people who met through a gay marriage hunt. I think it's a pretty serious work, or rather, a calm atmosphere. It progresses slowly. Compared to that, the supporting CP has a strong personality and assertiveness, and is it a momentary spin-off? I thought, but maybe it's different? The supporting CP is kind of like BL from a year ago, and the temperature difference with the main CP... lol I don't think it's bad. I'm glad it was Happien.

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Jun 10, 2021 (PST) | Translate to English

ゆっくりと

unhurried

男同士とか関係なく、実際に婚活で出会って結婚するカップルってこんな感じなのかな?って思えるようなリアルに感じさせてくれました。ゆっくりお互いを知っていく中で、仕事中に偶然会うことで信頼度が増して距離が縮まるのも、なるほどっと言った感じ。お互いが結婚したいと思う理由など、丁寧なストーリーの割に俊がゲイ婚活に参加した理由が突拍子もなく感じられたのが残念。

I wonder if couples who actually meet and get married through marriage hunting are like this regardless of whether they're men? It made me feel as real as I thought. As we slowly get to know each other, I can see that meeting by chance during work increases the level of trust and shortens the distance. It's a pity that I suddenly felt the reason why Shun participated in gay marriage hunting in spite of the careful story, such as the reason why they both wanted to get married.

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Apr 11, 2021 (PST) | Translate to English

穏やかなお話

A calm story

すぐに体の関係にならず、ゆっくりと心を近づけ関係を深めていく感じが良かったです。自分もパートナーが欲しくなる。

It was a good feeling that we didn't get into a physical relationship right away, but slowly getting closer to each other and deepening the relationship. It makes me want a partner too.

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Aug 22, 2020 (PST) | Translate to English

表題作のみ

Title work only

ゆっくりと静かに二人の関係を作りあげていく。そんな穏やかな作品。時折、攻めが年下らしい可愛さを見せてくれます♪

They slowly and quietly build a relationship between the two. Such a gentle work. Occasionally, attacking shows how cute they are to be younger ♪

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ゲイ婚活。

gay marriage hunting.

This review contains spoilers. 結婚を前提にしたお付き合いの話…新鮮だなと思って買ってみました。冒頭に出てくるウェディングシーンが本当に幸せそうで、あれに憧れてしまう気持ちはわかるなー。それでいきなり突入できてしまう攻めもすごいけど、それだけ誰かと一緒に生きていきたいという気持ちが強かったということですよね。

This review contains spoilers. A story about a relationship based on marriage... I thought it was fresh, so I bought it. The wedding scene that comes up at the beginning seems really happy, and I understand the feeling of longing for it. It was also amazing to suddenly be able to rush in because of that, but that's why the feeling that I wanted to live with someone was so strong.

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Aug 10, 2019 (PST) | Translate to English

硬派攻め

Hardline Attack

バイの元彼が結局女と結婚し、次はゲイの結婚前提の人と付き合いたいと願う荻津涼介(29)は友人の主催するゲイ恋活パーティーで刈谷俊(28)とマッチングする。デートを重ね本格的に付き合うことになるが、俊は1つ涼介に話していないことがあって..絵が凄く上手なわけでもないしえっち度も低めなんだけどなんかよかったです。こういう朴訥な攻は好きだなぁ。俊がカーナビに「一番近くのラ＊ホテル」って音声入力してるシーンが萌えました。エロ薄めなのでBL初心者にお勧めしたい1冊です。

Bai's ex-boyfriend eventually married a woman, and next, Ogitsu Ryosuke (29), who wishes to go out with someone who presupposes a gay marriage, matches Kariya Shun (28) at a gay love hunting party hosted by a friend. They went on dates and ended up dating in earnest, but there was one thing that Shun didn't talk to Ryosuke about... he wasn't really good at drawing, and he was low at both, but that was kind of nice. I love this kind of plain attack. The scene where Shun is voice-typing “the nearest La* Hotel” into the car navigation system came to mind. This book is less erotic, so I would recommend this book for BL beginners.

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