Do You Still Take Me for Better or for Worse? Manga Reviews (P.4)

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おもしろい

entertaining

登場人物の心理描写が丁寧にかかれているなと思います。優しいだけって罪だな〜とおもったり。充分魅力的なのに自己肯定感が低かったり。個人的には真山と…っておもうけど、そうなったらそうなったでまた違う心配がでてくるのかな…。歳とともに、1つ1つの問題が簡単に解決できるものじゃなくて、複雑なことって多いよな〜と思いながら、一喜一憂しながら読んでます。

I think the psychological portrayals of the characters have been carefully applied. I think just being kind is a sin. Even though they are attractive enough, their sense of self-affirmation is low. Personally, I think it's Mayama and... but if that happens, I wonder if that will cause other concerns... As I get older, I read it while thinking that each problem isn't something that can be easily solved, and that there are a lot of complicated things, and I'm happy and disappointed.

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Aug 28, 2021 (PST) | Translate to English

純のハッピーエンドを！

Have a pure happy ending!

純の健気な生き方、一生懸命さにどうして、武頼は、昔の同級生に翻弄されているの？と怒りで一杯です。純のハッピーを待ってます。

Why is Takeyori at the mercy of his old classmates due to Jun's healthy way of life and hard work? I'm full of anger. I'm waiting for pure happiness.

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Aug 23, 2021 (PST) | Translate to English

複雑…

complicated...

This review contains spoilers. 足立さんの存在がすごいモヤモヤしてしまいますね。彼女も大変なのはわかりますが、武頼さんに手を出さないでーー?

This review contains spoilers. Adachi-san's presence is really confusing, isn't it? I know it's tough for her too, but why don't you touch Mr. Takeyori?

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辛い

spicy

This review contains spoilers. 10月からのドラマ化おめでとうございます。読み始めたらハマってしまい最新巻まで購入しちゃいました。旦那さん、どうか奥さんだけを見て大切にしてあげて下さい。ちゃんと2人で向き合って下さい。お互い大切に思ってるのに気持ちがすれ違ってきちゃって可哀想。同級生のバツイチの元カノが、あざとくてイラつきます。奥さんに近づいて夫婦仲を壊そうとしてるし。そんなあざとさに気づかないで元カノから泣きながら電話きたら駆けつけちゃうし。もう何なの！とイライラしますが、どんな展開になるか気になり購入してしまった笑。

This review contains spoilers. Congratulations on making it into a drama starting in October. Once I started reading it, I was so addicted to it that I even bought the latest volume. Husband, please only look at your wife and take good care of her. Please face it properly with the two of you. It's a pity that our feelings have passed each other even though we care about each other. My classmate's divorced ex-girlfriend is ridiculous and irritating. I'm getting close to my wife and trying to break up the marital relationship. I didn't notice that kind of ridicule, and when I got a phone call from my ex-girlfriend crying, she rushed in. What is it anymore! It's frustrating, but I bought it because I was curious about what kind of developments it would be lol.

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Aug 10, 2021 (PST) | Translate to English

こわい

I'm scared

This review contains spoilers. 同級生の女性は、こわいですね。是非とも、旦那様には、だまされず、理性を保ってもらいたいです。できれば、波乱ない展開を希望。

This review contains spoilers. The female classmate is scary, isn't it? By all means, I want my husband to stay rational and not be fooled. If possible, I hope for an uneventful development.

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Aug 08, 2021 (PST) | Translate to English

刺さる…

stings...

This review contains spoilers. 純の弱いのに強がる所や相手に拒まれる事で負った傷…すごいリアルで見てて本当に辛くなる。旦那さんなんでレスの理由言わないのかな。相手の女も可哀想な境遇かもしれないけど、やり方が姑息。間女の典型な匂わせとか不幸な未来しか見えない。純には幸せになって欲しい…。

This review contains spoilers. Even though Jun is weak, he is strong, and the wounds he has suffered from being rejected by his opponent... it's really painful to watch in real life. I wonder why my husband didn't say the reason for the loss. The woman I'm dealing with may also be in a poor situation, but the way I did it was appeased. I can only see the typical smell of a mommy or an unhappy future. I want Jun to be happy...

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ハマった

Addicted

This review contains spoilers. 旦那さん、子どもを迷ってる理由ちゃんと話せば良いのに。奥さんに対してカッコつけすぎかな。そんなんでずっと夫婦でいるのしんどくないかなぁ。そして疑いまくる奥さんの態度に不満そうなのも気に入らない。自業自得なんだから。と、モヤモヤしながら読むのがたまらない。漫画なのでもっとドロドロになっていってくれても良いかも。

This review contains spoilers. I wish my husband had a proper explanation of why he is hesitating about children. Maybe I'm putting too many parentheses on my wife. That's why I wonder if it's going to be tough being a married couple all the time. Also, I don't like the fact that she seems to be dissatisfied with her suspicious wife's attitude. That's because they earned their own money. It's irresistible to read it while being confused. It's a comic, so maybe it's okay if it gets even more muddy.

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ムカムカするけど引き込まれる…

I'm nervous, but I'm drawn in...

This review contains spoilers. 自分の立ち位置を絶妙に理解して振る舞う女子ってのはどの世代にも一定数いて、自分の為なら相手の状況マル無視して、自分の武器を最大限活用する足立さんは、個人的には嫌悪しか無いけど、ここまで顕著じゃないにせよ、いるなこんなヤツ…って思う。問題は仕掛けられた方で、はっきり拒否れば、この手の女子は深追いしてこない気がするけど、この旦那みたく罪悪感か親切心か知らんが、『昔の知り合いが困ってるのを助けただけ』とか何とか、薄っぺらい優しさ擬きの中途半端な対応が1番付け込まれるんだよ、、、。いいように利用されてるだけなのに。しかも、子供が欲しい奥さんがいるのに、元カノとその子供と休日を楽しく過ごすって、いったい何事⁉︎絶対に見られない場所まで出向くならまだしも詰めが甘すぎるし、すっごい反省したハズが、サクっと約束破って、バレなきゃいい的な対応とか、奥さんを馬鹿にしてるとしか思えないのに、離婚はしたくないとか意味不明過ぎる…。『話せない事がまた増えた』とか、自分のせいだろうがっ！！なに被害者ぶってんだっ！！！！巻き込まれ事故としか言いようの無い純ちゃんが本当に不憫。。。なのに自力で立とうとしたり健気で…嫁の立場で読んでるから、ホント無性に泣けてくる。体の関係は白でも裏切られた訳だし、1度そんな事があると、どんなにお互いが取り繕っても無かった事には出来ないし、事あるごとにチラついて良い関係が築けるとは思えない。子供もいないしまだ若いんだから、こんな男に付き合って時間を無駄にしないで、さっさと離婚して自分の人生をやり直して欲しい！幸せになって！

This review contains spoilers. There are a certain number of girls in every generation who act with an exquisite understanding of their position, and Adachi-san, who ignores her opponent's situation for her own sake and makes the most of her own weapons, has nothing but disgust, but even if it's not this obvious, I think there are no such guys... The problem is the one who set it up, and if I refuse clearly, I don't know if this kind of girl is guilty or kind, but I don't know if it's guilt or kindness like this husband, but “I just helped an old acquaintance in trouble” or something, a half-hearted response with flimsy kindness comes in first place... Even though it's just being used in a good way. What's more, even though I have a wife who wants kids, I'm enjoying the holidays with my ex girlfriend and her child, what exactly is going to be done ⁉ ︎ if you go to a place where you can never see them, things are still too easy, and I can only think that they are quickly breaking promises and dealing with how they should not find out, or making a fool of my wife, even though I don't want to get divorced... “The number of things I can't talk about has increased again,” or maybe it's my own fault!! what the victim is bothering!!! Jun-chan, who was involved in an accident and can only be described as an accident, is really disgusting... But I'm trying to stand up on my own strength... and I'm reading it from the standpoint of a wife, so it really makes me cry. The physical relationship is betrayed even if it's white, and once there is such a thing, no matter how much we fix each other, we can't do what we didn't do, and I don't think we can build a good relationship by flickering every time something happens. I'm still young without kids, so don't waste my time dating a guy like this, get divorced quickly, and start over with my life! Be happy!

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Jul 25, 2021 (PST) | Translate to English

純に幸せになってほしい

I want you to be genuinely happy

This review contains spoilers. 興味深い話です。どんどん読んでしまいました。そして、何度も悩みながら自分の力で生きようとしている純さんが、きちんと幸せをつかめるように願いながら読んでいます。前向きさが偽善的でないのも、見習いたいし、私もこう生きていきたいと思いました。しかし、好きになっちゃったからとか、欲しいからで、すでに相手がいる人にどうこうしかけるのは、ただの獣で、もはや人間ではないと思います。きちんと、ルールや順を追って、相手を追い詰めず、きちんと別れることができた暁には、好きにしたらよいと思いますが、個人的にはそういう人は気持ち悪いとしか思えません。どんな建前があったとしても。足立さんには1人で生きるたくましさを、今後の展開でだしてもらうか、破滅していただきたいと感じました。流されることや表面的な援助を、優しさと勘違いしているタケもしかりです。。。

This review contains spoilers. It's an interesting story. I read more and more. Also, Jun-san, who is trying to live on her own strength while worrying over and over again, is reading it while hoping that she will be able to properly seize happiness. I wanted to learn from the fact that positivity isn't hypocritical, and I wanted to live this way too. However, I don't think what to do to someone who already has a partner, either because they fall in love with them or because they want them, is just a beast, and they're no longer human. Once you've properly followed the rules and order, and are able to break up properly without hunting down your partner, I think you can do whatever you like, but personally, I can only think that kind of person is disgusting. No matter what kind of pre-construction it is. I felt that I would like Mr. Adachi to show his strength to live alone or be ruined by future developments. Bamboo, which misunderstands being swept away or superficial help as kindness, is also true...

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お願い…

please...

武頼くん(夫）、純さん(妻）だけを見て！お願いだから…あなたの優しさが純さんを苦しめるんだよ。

Just look at Takeyori-kun (husband) and Jun-san (wife)! Please... your kindness will make Jun-san suffer.

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こわい…

I'm scared...

This review contains spoilers. 怖い怖い…足立さんが怖すぎる…幸せになれない女性の典型ですよね。でもとりあえず武頼が足立さんに流されず、ホッとしました。今のところみんな心に闇を抱えていますが、このあとの展開がどうなるのか気になる。新刊待ちきれずすぐ読みましたが、また続きがすぐ読みたい！！

This review contains spoilers. Scary scary... Adachi-san is too scary... typical of a woman who can't be happy. But anyway, I'm relieved that Takeyori wasn't swept away by Adachi-san. Everyone has darkness in their hearts so far, but I'm wondering what the next developments will be like. I couldn't wait for the new publication and read it right away, but I want to read more soon!!

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つらい

arduous

キャラ全員に共感も同情も覚えるけど、同時に嫌悪感も抱く。それだけリアルなんだと思います。リアルすぎて自分を重ねてしまうから辛いのでしょうか。他人の不幸のつもりで読み始めたら失敗する作品です。

I feel sympathy and sympathy for all of the characters, but at the same time I feel disgusted. I think that's how real it is. I wonder if it's painful because it's too real and I'm putting myself on top of each other. It's a work that will fail if you start reading it with the intention of someone else's misfortune.

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なんだこの結婚生活

What is this marriage

武頼に不倫を仕掛け、妻である純に見えない攻撃をしかけてくる足立がホントにキライで読んでいてイライラする。引っかかりそうってか、ほぼ引っかかっている武頼にも嫌悪感がある。こんな無駄な飼い殺しのような8年の結婚は無駄なので純にはキッパリ捨てて新しい道を進んで欲しいなと思いながら読んでいます。

Adachi, who sets up an affair with Takeyori and launches an invisible attack on his wife Jun, is really disgusting and frustrating to read. There is also disgust at Takeyori, who is almost caught, probably because he seems to get caught. I'm reading it while thinking that an 8-year marriage like such a useless slaughter is a waste, so I want Jun to throw it away completely and move on a new path.

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これからの旦那さんどうでる

How will my husband be in the future

This review contains spoilers. 旦那さんがこれからどんな行動に出るのか？友達として行ってしまうのか？この状態で同級生のあの女性のところに行ってしまうのか？どうなんだろう…まだこの段階では夫婦の修復可能ですが旦那さん次第ですねと思います。

This review contains spoilers. What kind of actions will your husband take in the future? Are we going away as friends? are you going to go to that woman in your classmate in this state? I wonder... it's still possible for the couple to be repaired at this stage, but I think it depends on the husband.

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リアルすぎて…

it's too real...

This review contains spoilers. 11話は読んでて辛かった。純の夫(武頼)の浮気(まだ未遂?)がバレて、子どもがいない自分や子どもが欲しいのに夫に拒否されてる辛さとか…その苦しさを誰かに相談したいけど、友達にも色々な人(既婚者、独身、子どもがいる、子どもがいない等)がいて誰にも相談できない…でも一瞬真山が浮かんだり…純みたいな立場の人にはこの漫画はリアルすぎて読むのが辛いかも。でも純は最後に幸せを掴んで終わってほしい。続きがとにかく気になります。少し大人向けの漫画ですがオススメです！

This review contains spoilers. I had a hard time reading episode 11. Jun's husband (Takeyori)'s affair (still attempted?) I found out about myself without children or the pain of being rejected by my husband even though I want children... but I want to talk to someone about that pain, but my friends have various people (married, single, have children, no children, etc.) and I can't talk to anyone... but Mayama comes to mind for a moment... but for people in a position like Jun, this comic may be too real and difficult to read. But I want Jun to finally grab happiness and end up. Anyway, I'm curious about the continuation. It's a bit of an adult comic, but I recommend it!

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ほんとそれ

Really that

This review contains spoilers. 聞いて！って言ったら聞いてくれるけど、相手の事を考えると出来ない！…わかる(泣)

This review contains spoilers. listen up! If I say that, they'll listen, but when I think about the other person, I can't do it! ... I understand (crying)

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続きが気になる！

I'm worried about the continuation!

過渡期とでも言うんでしょうかね～。苦しくもがく。でも這い上がる！みたいな。結局の所人は自分を幸せにするために生きてるんじゃないかなぁと思わせる作品です(笑)

I wonder if they even call it a transition period. It's a painful struggle. But it crawls up! It's like that. It's a work that makes me think that after all, people live to make themselves happy (laughs)

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11話を…辛いけど是非

Episode 11... it's painful, but by all means

涙ボロボロで嗚咽までいくかもです。11話の後半を辛いの耐えて見て欲しい、純の決意を。気高く生きる！ってホントそれです…また裏切を目撃するのかもしれないけど。ガラスの破片の上を歩く様な気持ちになるのかもだけど。純なのか私なのかもう解らないけど、自分軸で生きて！

My tears are in tatters and I might even cry. I want you to endure the pain and watch the second half of episode 11, Jun's Determination. Live nobly! that's true... maybe we'll witness another betrayal, though. It might feel like walking on shards of glass. I don't know if it's pure or me anymore, but live on your own axis!

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幸せを

Happiness

主人公の幸せを願います。夫婦の形とかって同じ方向向いてないとどちらかが苦しむ。読んでいて辛くなるけどこの先に主人公の幸せな未来があると思いたい

I wish the protagonist happiness. If the shape of a married couple doesn't face the same direction, either one of them will suffer. It makes it hard to read, but I want to think that there is a happy future for the protagonist ahead

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面白い.

It's interesting.

この作者さんのファンです。どれも面白い。このお話は、単なる不倫やせックスレスのお話ではなくそこに至った話を両者の目線で良く書かれています。今時の若者青山君のコミュ障で主人に一生懸命なところも共感もてます。絵は、男の人が目が細くあまりイケメンでないのですが、でもその方がリアリティを感じて良いです。親との関係など、大人が読んで共感できる漫画です。

I'm a fan of this author. All of them are interesting. This story is not just a story of infidelity or sexlessness, but the story that led up to that point is well-written from both perspectives. I also sympathize with the fact that today's young man Aoyama works so hard with his husband due to his communication disorder. In the picture, the man is narrow-eyed and not very handsome, but it's better to feel more realistic. It's a comic that adults can read and sympathize with, such as relationships with parents.

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