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Why I Adopted My Husband: The True Story of a Gay Couple Seeking Legal Recognition in Japan

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Why I Adopted My Husband is a profound exploration of love, societal expectations, and individuals' lengths to solidify their bonds. Yagi's storytelling prowess and the manga's impactful message position it as a must-read, shedding light on the challenges LGBTQ couples navigate in Japan. As a gay couple living in Japan (where gay marriage is not yet legal), Yuta and Kyota have found a unique loophole in order for the government to recognize their union: Kyota adopted Yuta.

This nonfiction manga depicts how the two men met and fell in love, their life together for the last twenty years, their struggle to communicate their relationship to their families, their anxieties about the future, and their determination to live happily and carefree as any other married couple, while they strive for independence and equal rights in a changing cultural landscape.

"If you know nothing about what homosexuality or LGBTQ people, Why I Adopted My Husband is a perfect introduction and learning tool. It also teaches you about Japanese culture, how many family traditions are ingrained into law, and how that's both a comfort to people and can hinder LGBTQ people who want to live their lives. It's cute and funny and gets the points across with a spoonful of sugar instead of a hammer." - Adi Tantimedh, Bleeding Cool

"Why I Adopted My Husband is a profound exploration of love, societal expectations, and individuals' lengths to solidify their bonds. Yagi's storytelling prowess and the manga's impactful message position it as a must-read, shedding light on the challenges LGBTQ couples navigate in Japan." - Travis Hayward, Geek Therapy

"There are tips on how a gay couple can go the adoption route, like information on contracts. It even includes a section showing how to fill out the paperwork. This part doesn't pertain to American readers, but the manga is still worth reading because of its well-told story, its look into the realities of gay couples in Japan, and how the characters are relatable - because even if someone isn't in Yuta and [Kyota]'s shoes, the parts about feeling left out would be something everyone can relate to on some level. The fact that both men are otaku (and there are plenty of references to otaku culture) makes telling the story in manga format all the better." - Katie Kimura, Otaku USA
Why I Adopted My Husband: The True Story of a Gay Couple Seeking Legal Recognition in Japan

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Japanese reviews were originally posted on Comic C’moA. Some reviews may contain spoilers for unreleased content or topics unrelated to MangaPlaza services.

  • StarStarStarStarStar

    Posted by Readers in Japan

    Mar 04, 2026 (PST) | Translate to English
    面白かったです
    This review contains spoilers. 同性婚が養子縁組で?!養子??とはじめ驚きましたが、知らないことも多く、また問題提起だけでなく、ある意味で解決策としてでていて、面白かったです。冒頭にもありましたが、何より明るく、楽しく、軽く読めるのでとても良いです。戸籍は、中々普段使わない上に表にでないせいか、時々夫婦別姓の話にも出てくる問題等も見受けられて、改めて社会の変化に対応しにくい制度なのかなと思ってしまいました。運用面のコストとか、少数派だからと対応しないと、悪用との区別、判断ががつかないので、余計危ないのではと思います。何もかも思い通りになんてならないことは分かっていても、描かれているお二人や、同じ思いを感じる方がある程度納得して、幸せに暮らせる社会であると良いなと思いました。
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    Posted by Readers in Japan

    Jan 09, 2023 (PST) | Translate to English
    法令遵守大事だね❗
    This review contains spoilers. マンガのような養子縁組ならよいのですが実際上は借金のがれの名前変更が多く大変です。多くの人に夢が与えられ価値観の多様性が感じられ面白いです。
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    Posted by Readers in Japan

    Dec 24, 2019 (PST) | Translate to English
    こういう人も多いのかな?
    This review contains spoilers. LGBTやらダイバーシティやらが声高に叫ばれる昨今、世間に特にカミングアウトせずに静かに夫夫生活を送るおふたりの話です。大変なことはきっとあるのでしょうが、仲が良くて羨ましい限りです。
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